Support for parents and carers
How to support your child if you’re worried about their mental health
As parents and carers, it's natural to worry about how your child is feeling, whatever their age. Many children and young people will be able to cope if they have the support of their families and friends.
If you need urgent help
If a child has taken an overdose or needs urgent medical help, call 999 or take them to the nearest A&E department. In Stockport, it will be Stepping Hill hospital.
If you've noticed that a child or young person has physical injuries such as deep cuts or burns, contact NHS 111 online or your GP for advice.
If you’re worried about a child’s mental health
Make time to listen
Create a calm, safe space where they can communicate their feelings. They may feel overwhelmed by a changing situation which is not being clearly explained in a way they can understand.
Take time to talk
Some young people find it easier to talk while doing something together such as playing in the park, going for a walk, painting or other activities.
Try to understand the problems and provide reassurance that you've heard them and you're there to help. Their problems could be something you have not picked up on. This is very common, so do not feel guilty about it.
Visit the NHS Every Mind Matters website for advice about looking after a child or young person's mental health.
Other places to get help and support
It’s okay not to feel okay and looking after a child or young person who is unwell with their mental health can be very worrying. Talk to your child's school or education provider about how they can help and support your child in school or refer them for further support. You can also talk to other professionals such as your:
- Health Visitor
- school nurse
- social worker
Visit the Start Well website for information about how to contact the health visiting and school nursing advice line.
You may be referred to another service to help support your child, depending on their age and needs.
Togetherness
Togetherness offers a range of online learning pathways for parents and families in childhood development, behaviour and emotional health.
You can access these learning pathways for free by entering the code REDROCK along with your Stockport postcode on the Togetherness website.
Parents and Carers Together in Stockport (PACTS)
If your child has a disability or additional needs, PACTS may be able to support you. Visit their website for more information.
Anna Freud
The Anna Freud website includes advice and guidance for parents and carers to help them support a child or young person experiencing poor mental health or wellbeing. Find out more on the Anna Freud website.
PAPYRUS
PAPYRUS is a UK charity dedicated to the prevention of suicide and promotion of positive mental health and emotional wellbeing in young people.
If you're worried about a young person, you can download a range of help and advice resources on the PAPYRUS website. This includes resources about:
- conversation starters
- coping techniques
- self-harm
Support for yourself
Remember to look after yourself as well as your loved ones. You can:
- find help and support on our mental health and wellbeing webpages
- visit the NHS website for information about how to access help and support
